The main reason I don't want to use C/C++ are the header files. You have to write everything in a header file and then in an implementation file. Every time you want to change a function you need to do this at least twice. And you don't even get fast compilation speed compared to some languages because your headers will #include some library that is immense and then every header that includes that header will have transitive header dependencies, and to solve this you use precompiled headers which you might have to set up manually dependending on what IDE you are using.
> You have to write everything in a header file and then in an implementation file.
No you don't. You write your guaranteed to the public interface into the header file. When you start to put code in there it stops being a header file.
> because your headers will #include some library that is immense and then every header that includes that header will have transitive header dependencies
Your approach is what leads to this problem. Your header files should be tiny and only composed of, well, headers. Also almost all header files should have include guards, so including more then once should be a no-op.[1] Nothing stops you from including implementation files.
[1] When you say that your or compiler doesn't have that optimization: When it has the complexity to support precompiled header files, it can also implement this optimization.
It gets better with experience. You can have a minimal base layer of common but rarely changing functionality. You can reduce static inline functions in headers. You reduce data structure definitions, but put only forward declarations in header files. (Don't use C++ methods, at least don't put them in an API, because they force you to expose your implementation details needlessly). You can separate data structures from functions in different header files. Grouping functions together with types is often a bad idea since most useful functionality combines data from two or more "unrelated" types -- so you'd rather make function headers "by topic" than putting them alongside types.
I just created a subsystem for a performance intensive application -- a caching layer for millions or even billions of objects. The implementation encompasses over a 1000 LOC, but the header only includes <stdint.h>. There are about 5 forward struct declarations and maybe a dozen function calls in that API.
To a degree it might be stockholm syndrome, but I feel like having had to work around a lot of C's shortcomings I actually learned quite a lot that helps me in architecting bigger systems now. Turns out a lot of the flexibility and ease that you get from more modern languages mostly allows you to code more sloppily, but being sloppy only works for smaller systems.
The main reason I don't want to use C/C++ are the header files. You have to write everything in a header file and then in an implementation file. Every time you want to change a function you need to do this at least twice. And you don't even get fast compilation speed compared to some languages because your headers will #include some library that is immense and then every header that includes that header will have transitive header dependencies, and to solve this you use precompiled headers which you might have to set up manually dependending on what IDE you are using.
It's all too painful.